A special event is taking place in Inverness to encourage people to find out all they ever wanted to know about dying – but were afraid to ask.
Talking about our own mortality is one of the last taboo subjects, but the conference entitled Dying to Know aims to get information about death and dying out into the public view and to encourage conversations around the subject.
The event is being staged by NHS Highland community development officer, Kate Maclean in partnership with Age Scotland, Highland Council, the Health and Happiness Project and the Adult Protection Unit, and will include a series of presentations on a wide range of topics such as wills, power of attorney and funeral planning. The Provost of Inverness, Alex Graham, will officially open the event in the Town House between 11am and 3pm this Friday.
Mrs Maclean said: “Because people often shy away from having difficult conversations around either their own, or a relative or friend’s dying or death, much unnecessary anxiety is added to the stress of bereavement.
“We all know that making arrangements brings peace of mind, but knowing that and doing something about it are two completely different things.
“I would like to encourage people to come along and perhaps help allay any fears they might have around death and dying.”
One of the presentations will be given by NHS Highland healthcare chaplain, Derek Brown.
Based at Raigmore Hospital, he has plenty experience of having these difficult conversations with friend’s families and individuals who have had bad news and is hopeful events like this can change people’s reluctance to talk about death and dying.
He said: “I would hope that anyone coming along on Friday does so with an open mind. Come along to be surprised, informed and hopefully have any anxiety allayed by the fact that it’s ok to talk about death.
“There needs to be better public awareness and education around the subject so that people can put plans in place that both assist their loved ones and also help with their own peace of mind.
“People can feel rather morbid when the subject is discussed but at the same time, these discussions can be productive and help people with both the practical and spiritual elements of death.”