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A place to remember George and Margaret Bremner: Poignant tribute for Father’s Day

A Place to Remember: George and Margaret Bremner
A Place to Remember: George and Margaret Bremner

Hundreds of bronze and silver plaques adorn benches all over Aberdeen.

And on special occasions like Father’s Day the stories behind these memorial badges, and the floral tributes laid upon them, are all the more poignant.

A Place to Remember seeks to bring to life the tales of love and loss behind these commemorative seats.

So today we’re remembering George and Margaret Bremner.

Father’s Day tribute

A single white rose sits upon one of Aberdeen beachfront’s many memorial benches today.

Looking out across the water just in front of Pizza Hut, those choosing to rest a while on the Esplanade seat may be unaware of the reasons Aberdonian couple, George and Margaret Bremner, are memorialised there.

A single white rose from the garden of George and Margaret Bremner to mark Father’s Day.

The flower – picked from their Hilton garden and planted when they celebrated 25 years of marriage – is a Father’s Day gift from their daughter Susan.

“The beachfront was always a special place for my mum and dad. Being here is a huge comfort to me and reminds me of all the times we were brought here as kids – whatever the weather!”

George and Margaret Bremner

When heart problems claimed the life of her husband George on December 1, 2004 – just days before their anniversary – it was Margaret Bremner’s wish to create a special place to remember her spouse.

The couple – who had two daughters, Susan and Anne – were devoted to one another, and it only seemed right that the family could enjoy a special place to remember Aboyne Golf Club member, George.

Captured in the 80s, George and Margaret Bremner are pictured with their daughters.
George Bremner with daughters Anne and Susan, and wife Margaret, in the 80s.

However, it wasn’t until 2016 that a bench was placed, near the beachfront retail park, carrying a plaque memorialising both halves of the couple.

“Sadly my mum developed bone cancer. Her leg seized up when she was driving one day and it quickly led to another hard diagnosis. She was in a lot of pain.”

Susan, a former nurse, looked after her mum at home, and sensed the outcome wasn’t good.

“I worked in orthopedics and when mum broke her femur and went into surgery I had an idea of how long these things would take. When the hours ticked by I think we knew what had happened. She sadly never really recovered from that.”

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Both George and Margaret loved bowling and darts, and were members of Bridge of Don Country Club. Margaret even captained the women’s team.

George worked for Hall and Tawse his whole life beginning as a post boy and ended his career as a chief bonus surveyor. Margaret was a clerk with Chap Construction.

George and Margaret Bremner, who have a memorial bench in their honour on the beachfront.
The Bremners: George and Margaret, of Hilton.

The couple loved indoor and outdoor bowling and George was also an avid golfer.

They also loved to travel with friends Ian and Sheila Fraser. Ian was a longstanding friend of George. They had both completed National Service together and as children been in the Boys Brigade together too.

And they held a special place in their hearts for the waterfront.

Great memories

When both parents were no longer with them the family decided to push ahead with a memorial.

Susan said: “When my parents passed away we received cards in their hundreds. You always think your own mum and dad are special – and I mean, I was very close to my dad especially. But it was touching to see how well thought of they were by so many others.

Susan sitting on the knee of her dad, George.

“We just thought ‘we need to do a memorial’ really. And the beach held so many memories… of us eating ice cream – usually in the car because it was so cold outside.”

Anne pressed ahead with organising the bench via Aberdeen City Council and chose to engrave the words she already had as a tattoo on her leg, as the inscription.

Beloved grandparents

George, who was raised in Marchburn Avenue, Northfield, attended Powis Academy, and Margaret – formerly Margaret Clark, came from Hilton.

And though they found each other later in life, the life they built together was ‘full of fun and love.’

Memorial bench near Pizza Hut for George and Margaret Bremner.
Located in their favourite spot, George and Margaret’s bench. Picture by Wullie Marr.

They were especially proud to be grandma and granda to Stewart and Jamie Laing – Anne’s children – with George in particular relishing the opportunity to watch Stewart play football.

Place to remember

For Father’s Day Susan hoped to visit George and Margaret’s special place.

“I think the plaque on the bench sums it up best…

“‘When a loved one becomes a memory – the memory becomes a treasure.’

The plaque from George and Margaret Bremner's memorial bench
The plaque that contains the life story of the Bremner family,

“Visiting the bench, especially on an important day helps keep their memories alive. Using a rose from their garden, planted as a way to commemorate how much they loved each other, makes it more so.”

  • Do you know the story of one of the many people memorialised by Aberdeen’s benches? Email lindsay.bruce@ajl.co.uk or complete the form below.

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