Restaurant tipping should only be for when it's deserved

Round of applause for the new law that will see workers keep all the tips they get from customers for themselves – and about time, too.

By and large most hospitality places such as bars and restaurants operate an equitable policy to make sure staff get the cash “thank yous” from folk they have been working so hard to look after.

But I have heard horror stories of some venues where tips go into the till to become part of the boss’s profits. Boo, to that.

It is only fair and equitable that if you put the blood, sweat and tears in to go above and beyond and are recognised for that, then it should go in your pocket, no one else’s.

So well done to all you pub and restaurant staff, along with hairdressers, cabbies and everyone else who gets a wee boost for good service.

Restaurant tipping is never straight forward

But this raises that old thorny question of when to tip – and how much – or even to tip at all.

It was one I wrestled with on a recent trip to Canada where I came face to face with the tipping culture over there. It isn’t an optional extra, it is an expectation from which you cannot escape.

Every single tab for a meal or a drink comes with the card machine screen set to tip options from 15% to 25% – no question, no debate, just here you go.

In effect, the prices you see on the menu are automatically inflated by at least that 15%.

It’s not a practice I would welcome here because tipping should be a choice for the consumer, based on the experience they have had, not something to be demanded or expected.

Now, I think tipping is a good thing. It’s an acknowledgement that you’ve enjoyed being where you were, appreciated the care you were shown and you want to say thanks so much.

It also encourages good service all across the board by rewarding it – but it must be your choice.

I have been in places where it’s service with a snarl, being utterly ignored until the server can be bothered to see what you want, then made to feel as if you are keeping them back from something they would rather be doing when you ask for the bill.

So, not a penny tip, not even a farthing, for surly nonsense.

If you automatically give over the odds in those situations “because you should” you are rewarding those whose only tip should be: “Try looking after your guests”.

That said, the vast majority of servers, bar staff, et al, do wonderful work, are so hard grafting it makes my head spin and deserve to be rewarded by the customers they look after.

So tip when you can, tip what you can and let’s support the stars of our hospitality sector.

Scott Begbie is a journalist and editor, as well as PR and comms manager for Aberdeen Inspired